No touching people or personal property without permission.
Treat everyone as an equal, and only engage in verbal role-play/Dynamics if you have permission. For example, don’t refer to someone as “Mistress/Master/Slave”, call someone by a pet name or use derogatory words like “slut” unless you’ve asked for permission.
Be respectful when you seeing/contacting others outside of this group.
Anyone can withdraw consent, make a nonverbal safesign or use the universal safeword “Red” at any time. Once consent is withdrawn, the activity must stop immediately.
Negotiate the scope of your play prior to the activities, including whether there will be any contact with areas like the breasts, buttocks and genitals. Each person must give verbal consent to the proposed acts before any playing or scenes begin.
Each participant is responsible for making sure everyone involved has the mental and emotional ability to give informed and voluntary consent. They cannot give consent if they are intoxicated to the point that they can’t drive or are slurring their words, or if they are under the influence of prescription drugs that prohibit driving.
Don’t re-negotiate in the middle of your scene unless it is to reject activities that were previously agreed to. A person who is in subspace or otherwise not in a clear state of mind, may not be able to give informed consent even if they agree or don’t protest in the heat of the moment.
The top is legally responsible for stopping the activities at any suggestion that the bottom has withdrawn consent. The bottom is ethically responsible for being clear and unequivocal when withdrawing consent.
No one is exempt from the rules, including staff members.
If you experience or witness a consent incident, tell the staff immediately. Please also report to the staff if you think someone may not be able to give consent. Violation of this consent policy may result in expulsion.
Disclaimer: Every reasonable effort will be made to enforce this policy, but this organization makes no representations or guarantees about its ability to do so, and all participants/attendees retain full, sole responsibility for their safety and the safety of others with whom they interact.
